why are guys so afraid of relationships?
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my boyfriend broke up with me. he wasn’t ready to be in a relationship and had to figure out why he was feeling the way he was. i swear there has to be something wrong with me…why can’t i see it?
there’s no doubt about it, breakups suck. but in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there’s one important truth you need to recognize - some things can’t and shouldn’t be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. it’s over for a reason and deep down inside you probably know what that reason is. a lot of the pain you’re experiencing right now is actually fear; fear of things being different than how you liked them, fear of never finding love again, fear of being alone, fear of having to fill your time differently. we’re afraid of the unknown.
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what does a guy mean when he says they dont feel ready to give their full self to someone right now? he says im nice and doesnt want to hurt me…so what is wrong with me?
